Control of Self Journey

Hello hello,

This week I am working on self-control. This one is proving to be a bit more difficult for me and obviously requires a bit more focus.

I’ve learned the hard way that the only person that I have control over is myself. There is a reason for that. Only I can take control of this vessel and I am here for a purpose.

There’s a saying in my family that goes, it takes me 24/7 to mind my own business, which is why my only concern had been what I think and how I show up in the world and not to worry about anyone else.

What I now understand is that I am the cause and the external is the effect so instead my family’s concept of being in control, where I have to protect myself to mind my own business, it’s the opposite and the only offense. I have to give of myself to mind my own business, in focus, intention and in presence.

Control of self on a mental, physical and spiritual level requires me to first be present. If I am in control of my ability to be present, I also have the ability to be in control of my mind, body and spirit. It is a practice but more importantly it is a choice.

We don’t wake up one day and all of a sudden have self-control. Yet through the law of practice, the law of growth and ultimately the law of attraction we can all learn Self-control for we can only reap what we Soe. Our actions have to be in alignment with the seeds sewn.

I am in self-control of how i act and react. My tone of my voice and my silence. I’m even in control of how I feel. As we all are.

Being aware of Self-control has brought so many things to light for me about myself. I see that I know what I’m supposed to do and even when I distract myself with something that I’m more comfortable doing, I come back to task.

I see that consuming information without application will not bring me success. I must practice. I see that it is me against me when it comes to my successes and that awareness is invaluable in this pursuit and indeed our responsibility for our growth.

I will continue in this practice of self-control and when I do, I know that very soon I will no longer distract myself because I will be inevitably in control of Self.

I am virtuous. I embody virtue. Self-control is the fruit that I will bear by continuing this practice!

I love this stuff!

Peace and Blessings,

Lakia McCrae aka Alchemist Kia

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