NARC – A Roller Coaster of Emotions & The Law of Dual Thought

WoW! I am full of emotions as I just completed the NARC exercise, which was an eye opener. There was a lot of resistance to doing the exercise, especially since I felt my life was moving in the right direction and I didn’t want to do anything that would interrupt or interfere with that momentum.

So, what is NARC? It is Neurological Associative Reactive Condition and what does it have to do with Master Key Experience. Well, in week 13 and then again in week 15 we were asked to do the exercise.

My initial hesitation was not about making phone calls, which is necessary to fulfill my DMP (Definite Major Purpose – life’s dreams – Soul Contracts), because I was fearful of phone calls. No, I’ve done calls and talking to people for more than 40 years.

My hesitation was that I am a Red (color code) and I like to get things right. I’m still dealing with perfectionism, at least around some issues. I’m a work in progress. I’m changing and reprogramming my brain every day, but it does take work and patience.

So, why was I reluctant to make the calls then? I wanted to really know the system that Mark is teaching well before I spoke to some of my people. People that I care about, and I want to help them.

Extend the invitation to this opportunity which could change their life, and I didn’t want to blow it because I wasn’t proficient at Mark’s system. I have been planting seeds for several months and initially I had people join, but not very many of my downline were embracing the personal empowerment course material or really engaging in what we are doing in our organization.

Going back to NARC exercise then. As I did the exercise, which is connecting to the act of dumping all of your material regarding your DMP, Og Mandino’s The Greatest Sales in the World, flash cards, flip cards etc. into the garbage, which also has you immediately feel and connect to the fact that you won’t fulfill your DMP – life’s dreams.

To connect with those emotions and sense of loss. Not making the calls means not fulfilling your dreams. What emotions did I feel. WoW. Lots of tears and release of a lot of hidden emotions. Grief, disappointment, feeling a great loss.

Then next part was all about applying the Law of Dual Thought where we were told we can attach any emotion to the same experience.

My first attempt was to connect to a situation that was about courage and making the right decision which saved a family member’s life. There were a lot of emotions again, and I was having difficulty.

I felt strong and grateful for my decisions and the overwhelming outcome, but I really had to get into the positive feelings of joy but with so many things around this situation there were mixed feelings. I was grateful, joyous but so much pain also that it was hard to connect to the real joy. To feel the connection to pure joy, happiness.

So, in this case I first felt with dumping my DMP and all the material into the garbage with the sadness, grief and overwhelming emotions of not fulfilling my heart’s desires. The flood gates opened, and I was shocked at the emotions. My first attempt was better than not doing the exercise, but the tears of joy were mixed with pain and grief, so many emotions.

I decided to try it again. This time I searched for something that I remember being extremely joyous with, feel an intense sense of joy without any baggage. I really had to search. Most of my life, it has been hard to find joy. Joy had escaped me, and the fleeting moments of joy were very short-lived or so distant that it was hard to connect to that emotion again.

So, my next attempt I imagined what it would feel like picking up all of my material and making the phone calls and connecting it to all the people that I am surrounded by that would benefit from me sharing this amazing opportunity.

Knowing in my heart that this opportunity is a real gift for anyone wanting to do the work and change their life and the life of those who they would share it with.

For me to connect to an intense feeling of joy, I imagined the feelings and exhilaration that I felt when I had won a large lottery prize years ago. I had just filed for a divorce and was feeling down, but I had a very strong feeling about buying a Princess Margaret Lottery Ticket knowing inside I was going to win.

I had never bought a ticket before, and my husband always told me I couldn’t buy a ticket. Man did it feel good buying the ticket but when I got the notice in the mail, I had won a large 40’ cabin cruiser that slept 6+ people I was elated. I opened the letter and read the notice. Congratulations you have won! I Won! I remember jumping up and down feel over the moon.

I associated my joy with winning the lottery to making the phone calls and extending an invitation to people that I know and care about who could change their lives – an opportunity for them to fulfil their dreams with the support of myself and our team. Implementing Mark’s system, making the calls, was now a joy. WoW what a feeling and what a change by changing my perspective.

The point is how I realized I could go through the exercise and consciously change my feelings around an experience if I consciously choose to do so. For me the difficulty was finding a situation that I could relive and really feel the feelings attached to joy, excitement and then take those feelings and attach those same feelings to making the calls and talking to people about this amazing opportunity.

They key is not to sell them but to ask them what they want, and how you can help them achieve their dreams. Master Key Experience is similar, it gives you the knowledge and tools but only you can change you from the inside out.

Wow it was so simple to do actually and the rewards or the potential is enormous. It was for me letting go of getting it perfect and just getting back at making the calls knowing that I could invite the person on the other side of the phone the opportunity to change their life. I feel passionate that this is an opportunity of a lifetime.

I have always felt from the very beginning that sharing Master Key Experience with some one is a gift both in the giving but also in the receiving as well. Helping someone live their dreams is an amazing feeling.

I used to feel absolutely elated when I sold a property especially if it was their dream home and they were extremely happy with their purchase. I always would strive for a win, win situation where all parties were happy with the deal. I liked to be fair and have everyone happy, everyone a winner.

This too is part of our daily read with the Blueprint builder. “Fifth, I full realize that no wealth or position can long endure, unless built upon truth and justice, therefore I engage in no transaction which does not benefit all whom it affects.”

What I find amazing is as the course material unfolds, we are learning that everything is already within us and much of the character we aspire to be is deep within us as well. Start focusing on what you want to develop, recognize it in others and you will see it within yourself. It has always been there hidden below all the cement.

So, it is about understanding how we create our reality and changing some of the programs that have been running in the subconscious mind that has been sabotaging our life.

Each week as we embrace new tools and exercises, please join me on this life altering journey of self discovery, becoming the woman God intended me to be, the self mastery of me.