Boy! Does that make a difference in a conversation with anyone. Opinions are the precursor to everything bad! They always come out sounding so threatening to others. Because they are to their psyche. I fought and fought with myself biting my tongue to not blurt out my opinions every other conversation. I have so many of course. I am a RED!
Unfortunately up until now I always thought my opinions were the total truth. Learning to hold those thoughts have lead to more thinking and listening then ever before! We have all heard it less talk more listening or you have two ears and only one mouth.
I think that is great but if we all just listen who will do the talking? Remember to think about what you say and remember what OG says “I dig for reasons to applaud; never I scratch for excuses to gossip.“
In the end I saw consistent increase in meaningful conversations with family and friends it was AMAZING! Facts work great as a substitute. At least you get them thinking and not mad. I was noticing a significant positive feeling about my self when not voicing my opinions. That in its self is some what of an unbelievable consequence.
Go to show you that even a RED personality can learn to curb his addiction for endorphins hearing himself be right ( 😳 ) I mean hearing himself talk . Ha ha.
Let’s just stay the course, keep plugging way and keep stubby preoccupied with our focus on the person we want to become and the things we want to do.
I Always Keep My Promises
Scott Johnson
